We have a meal out planned, and I’m already wondering whether it’s too soon to ask her to be my girlfriend. We’ve met up before. I like her, I’m catching feelings, and I’d like to know whether this could become a relationship.
The dinner itself is the straightforward part. We’ve made a plan to see each other again. What I can’t work out is whether that’s a good moment to ask, or whether I’m getting ahead of where we are.
I know how I’m starting to feel. I don’t yet know whether she’s in the same place. Having another date arranged gives me something to look forward to, but it doesn’t quite answer that question.
There’s also a difference between enjoying someone’s company and being ready to call them your partner. I’m interested in taking that next step. I’m unsure how much time to give it before saying so.
I don’t have a big declaration planned. The question is simple enough: would she like to be my girlfriend? It’s choosing the moment that keeps making it feel bigger.
For now, we have dinner ahead of us. Is that the time to ask how she feels about becoming a couple, or is it still too early?
