I wanted to be open to my girlfriend’s fantasy. Then I stayed nearby while it happened and discovered how painful my own agreement could feel.
Relationships & Desire
She Said She Was Interested. Why the Distance After We Met Alone?
She explicitly said she was interested. After our first one-on-one hangout, she seems distant, and I’m unsure where that leaves us.
Bedroom Talk
My Husband Wants Me With Other Men, but Won’t Have Sex With Me
My husband says he’s too sexual for me. But he refuses intercourse, wants me with other men, and blames me when I say no.
Relationships & Desire
He Loved the Celebration. Why Did He Leave My Letter Behind?
I planned a dinner for his promotion and wrote him a letter. He appreciated the evening, but leaving the letter behind hurt more than I expected.
Bedroom Talk
I Want to Take Charge in Bed. Do I Have to Run Everything?
My boyfriend likes dominant women, and I’m curious about taking the lead. But I also love being cared for—and I don’t want to perform his preferences.
Relationships & Desire
After 12 Years Together, He’s Still Not Ready to Live With Me
We planned to share the house he was building. More than 12 years later, I’m still in my own home, and he says he’s scared.
Confessions & Secrets
My Partner Won’t Tell His Friend’s Girlfriend He’s Cheating. Should I?
My partner has confronted his friend about cheating, but won’t tell the girlfriend who lives abroad. I’ve made an account to find her—and stopped short.
Relationships & Desire
My Boyfriend Says Powerful Men Give In to Cheating
A conversation about a celebrity affair left me questioning what my boyfriend believes about fidelity—and what it means for our three years together.
Confessions & Secrets
My Lab Partner Gave Me Oral Sex. Do I Tell the Girl I’m Talking To?
A familiar study invitation turned sexual. Now I’m unsure whether the girl I’m already talking to needs to know.
Bedroom Talk
A Year Without Sex, and He Still Watches Porn
After a year without sex, learning that my boyfriend still watches porn brought everything I had been feeling into one tearful conversation.
Relationships & Desire
She Still Kissed Me After Saying Our Sexual Chemistry Was Missing
Our first time having sex went badly. Her words afterward hurt, but her affection left me unsure where we stood.
Relationships & Desire
She Turned Me Down. Two of Her Teammates Made It Easier
My first attempt at asking a woman out in person ended in rejection, in front of a crowd. Then two of her teammates came over.