We’re official, comfortable together and planning a holiday. But between dates, two or three replies a day leave me feeling far away.
Confessions & Secrets
My Boyfriend Has Been Messaging His Ex for Nine Years. She Never Replies
I thought his ex was part of his past. Then I found nine years of messages, compliments and birthday wishes—with no replies from her.
Bedroom Talk
I Want to Explore Kink With Her. How Do I Bring It Up Again?
Our sex life is good, and we’re planning a future. So why am I nervous about reopening the conversation about what we both want in bed?
Relationships & Desire
I Left a Boyfriend Who Loved Me Because I Didn’t Admire Him
She felt loved, safe and wanted. But she believed she needed a boyfriend she could look up to—and three months after leaving, that belief is troubling her.
Relationships & Desire
Why Does the Flirting Fade When I Say I Want Casual Sex?
The banter is easy. Making a plan is another matter, especially when I’m honest that I don’t want a relationship.
Relationships & Desire
He Left His Stuff at My Place, Then Ignored My Text
I don’t want him as my boyfriend. But after sex, an unanswered invitation felt different from keeping things casual.
Relationships & Desire
After Six Weeks of Acting Like a Couple, She Still Wanted to Be Single
We dated twice a week, talked every day, and met each other’s friends. When I asked for exclusivity, she wanted to keep everything except that.
Bedroom Talk
I Moved Abroad for Sexual Freedom—and Can’t Find a Man for One Night
At 26, I finally have room to explore my sexuality. A demanding master’s leaves little room for romance—but finding casual sex isn’t simple either.
Playful Escapades
I Said Yes to Every Date Idea—Until He Asked What I Actually Liked
I agreed to a horror movie even though they give me nightmares. After four dates, he had started to notice how little I ever chose.
Confessions & Secrets
My Husband Promised to Clear His Feed. The Videos Are Back
My husband promised to remove the videos that made me feel compared with other women. Then I saw his feed—and checked his history.
Relationships & Desire
Can a Man Love His Partner Without Her Being His Type?
A friend says men often choose love and trust without the physical spark they want. I’m wondering how much that leaves out.
Playful Escapades
My Boyfriend Showers Without Soap—and I Only Just Found Out
A first shower at my boyfriend’s place revealed a routine I hadn’t expected—and left me facing a very awkward conversation.