After a month of fun dates and constant gaming together, I still don’t know whether he wants the same thing I do.
Relationships & Desire
Four Women Want More. I’m Still Getting Over My Ex.
I wanted casual dates after a breakup. Now four women want more, and two have genuinely surprised me—but I still have feelings for my ex.
Confessions & Secrets
My Supervisor Admitted His Affair. Do I Tell His Girlfriend?
My supervisor says his girlfriend knows nothing about his six-month affair with our coworker. I’m considering telling her, but he is also my boss.
Relationships & Desire
My Boyfriend Says He Could Reunite With His Ex in Ten Years
We’ve been dating for five months. He sees his ex almost every week and says they could be together again in ten or fifteen years.
Relationships & Desire
Why Did My Boyfriends Think My Photos Were for Other Men?
I liked my outfit and posted a picture. A few ex-boyfriends saw something else: an attempt to impress other men.
Relationships & Desire
Two Weeks of All-Day Texting, and He Still Hasn’t Flirted
He keeps finding reasons to keep us talking. We both have partners, and I cannot tell whether his attention means attraction.
Playful Escapades
I Waited All Evening to Kiss Her. Then Her Uber Was Coming.
The conversation was easy. Reading the signals was harder. Then we kissed outside while waiting for her ride home.
Confessions & Secrets
My Boyfriend Flirted With My Fake Profile
He admitted he had a girlfriend, then carried on flirting with my anonymous account. It was the second time I’d tested him.
Playful Escapades
I Asked If He Wanted to Watch Me With Another Man
I thought a fantasy about another man would turn my boyfriend on. Instead, he pulled away—and I can barely explain why I said it.
Confessions & Secrets
Too Sick for Our Date, Well Enough for the Bar
My boyfriend canceled dinner because he felt sick. Hours later, I saw him out with friends—and asking about it made me the problem.
Relationships & Desire
We Share a Life. Why Do I Still Feel Alone?
Sharing bills, sex, and everyday life can still leave the difficult things unspoken. I’m trying to understand what that leaves between us.
Relationships & Desire
Was My Boss Hinting He Wanted to Sleep With Me?
At 2 a.m., my married boss walked me to my hotel and brought up a past near-encounter. Was he trying to find out whether I’d sleep with him?