We both say we have high sex drives. But my attempts rarely lead to sex, and when I pull back, my wife says I’m not initiating enough.
Bedroom Talk
He’s Too Busy for Sex—and He Forgets to Kiss Me
I love my partner, but two months without sex—and the missing kisses—have left me wondering whether he still desires me.
Bedroom Talk
My Fiancé Cherishes Me, but I’m Tired of Asking for Sex
I love spending time with my fiancé. But after four unsuccessful attempts to initiate sex this month, I can no longer picture our wedding.
Confessions & Secrets
He Wants to Marry Me. I’m Still Trying to Trust Him After the Cheating
After three years together, I love him and remember how he helped me. But his secret encounters still shape how I feel about marriage.
Relationships & Desire
After We Slept Together, He Joked About Finding a Girlfriend
After sex with a close friend, his joke about finding a girlfriend hurt. They still talk every day, but the night itself has gone unmentioned.
Bedroom Talk
I Invited My Wife’s Boyfriend for the Weekend—and Pretended I Enjoyed It
Our open marriage had improved our sex life. Then I suggested a weekend with our partners and discovered how differently I felt watching it happen.
Bedroom Talk
Our Handcuff Game Could Put Me in Charge. That’s the Part I’m Unsure About.
A game with my boyfriend could reverse our usual roles. We have the handcuffs, but I’m still working out how I feel about taking the lead.
Playful Escapades
My Gym Crush Ended a Personal Chat With a Fist Bump
He started the conversations and asked about my interests. Then my gym crush ended our chat with a fist bump, and I wasn’t sure what to make of it.
Confessions & Secrets
His Wedding Ring Was What Made Me Want Him
I was about to leave an adult theater when a wedding ring changed who I wanted. Weeks later, that reaction still unsettles me.
Bedroom Talk
I Want My Boyfriend to Take Charge, but How Do We Begin?
We already experiment in bed. What I can’t picture is how we begin exploring a submissive and dominant dynamic together.
Relationships & Desire
My 62-Year-Old Coworker Invited Me Away After We Kissed
We kissed at the work Halloween party. Now she wants me to spend the weekend at her house on the shore, and I’m eager, inexperienced, and unsure what to say.
Playful Escapades
My Married Maintenance Guy Keeps Forgetting His Screwdriver
A missing screwdriver was easy to explain. Then came the late-night messages and the appearances at the pool.