He pursued a serious relationship after our casual fling. Almost a year later, I’m afraid to initiate sex with the man who wishes I would.
Nearly 100 Dating-App Matches, Fewer Than Ten Replies
Three apps, three weeks, and almost a hundred matches. At 50, I’m finding that mutual interest rarely gets as far as a conversation.
My Girlfriend Heard a Body-Count Question I Didn’t Mean to Ask
A conversation about past relationships turned into an argument about sexual history. Now neither of us has sent the next message.
I’m Engaged, but Imagining a Breakup Feels Like Getting Myself Back
After seven years together, I finally told my fiancée what I’d been missing. Now the thought of leaving brings a relief I don’t know how to ignore.
My Fiancé Replanned Our Wedding Because He Knew I’d Say No
We agreed on a small wedding. Then my fiancé changed the date, guests and reception before telling me—because he knew I would object.
I Asked My Classmate to Leave Me Alone. Now I Miss Her.
After she turned down a date, I asked for distance. A month later, we still share a classroom, and I miss the conversations I ended.
My Tinder Date Took Me Home to Make Her Ex Jealous
After forty minutes hearing about her ex, I mistook an invitation home for attraction. Then she explained why she needed me on her couch.
What If My Crush Says Yes Only Because I Asked?
I’m thinking of asking out my university crush. Rejection scares me, but my friends have made a reluctant yes sound worrying too.
Was My Husband Flirting With His Colleague Behind My Back?
A deleted WhatsApp message and a text before dawn left me wondering whether my husband’s colleague had become more than a colleague.
One Dinner Made Me Notice Men Old Enough to Be My Father
At 28, I thought I knew my type. Then an attentive dinner with an older man changed who caught my eye.
I’m a Virgin, but My New Girlfriend Thinks I’ve Had Hookups
At thirty, my first kiss went badly. The second went better. My invented sexual history is proving harder to improve.
Did My Honesty About Sex Intimidate the Older Guy?
He asked what I liked in bed, then seemed to retreat when I answered. Now I’m wondering whether to slow down or keep being candid.