I wanted to be open to my girlfriend’s fantasy. Then I stayed nearby while it happened and discovered how painful my own agreement could feel.
Bedroom Talk
Sex, desire, and the things partners don’t always know how to say. Candid stories about making a move, trying something new, and wanting different things in bed.
My Husband Wants Me With Other Men, but Won’t Have Sex With Me
My husband says he’s too sexual for me. But he refuses intercourse, wants me with other men, and blames me when I say no.
I Want to Take Charge in Bed. Do I Have to Run Everything?
My boyfriend likes dominant women, and I’m curious about taking the lead. But I also love being cared for—and I don’t want to perform his preferences.
A Year Without Sex, and He Still Watches Porn
After a year without sex, learning that my boyfriend still watches porn brought everything I had been feeling into one tearful conversation.
I Want Better Sex, but I’m Scared to Leave Him
After four years together and too many conversations that changed nothing, I want a better sex life. The loneliness after a breakup still scares me.
I Stopped Initiating Sex. Now I Don’t Want It Either
After years of rejection, I stopped initiating sex. Now my desire has faded too, but our silence about it still hurts.
I Love My Fiancée. Can I Marry Into This Little Sex?
My fiancée says she wants more sex too. After years of hoping our sex life will change, I’m starting to question the marriage ahead of us.
I Want My Boyfriend—So Why Is His Belly Turning Me Off?
Our relationship is good, and we’re sexually compatible. But a change in his body has left me struggling with desire—and with how to talk about it.
What Would He Keep Private in a Judgment-Free Talk About Sex?
An invitation to reveal every sexual desire can leave a man weighing privacy, uncertainty, and the difference between acceptance and enthusiasm.
Moving In Together Left Us Having Less Sex—and No Easy Compromise
Living together brought us closer in everyday life. It also revealed how differently we feel about sex—and how hard compromise is to define.
My Husband’s Mustache Has Put Our Kissing on Hold
His fuller mustache makes him feel better about his looks. I understand that. I also miss being able to kiss him.
My Boyfriend Enjoys Sex, but I’m Tired of Always Initiating
He seems genuinely interested when they have sex. After four years together, she misses being the one he reaches for.