I want to try wax play. What I haven’t figured out is how to get from being curious to feeling comfortable enough to buy the candles.
Every site seems to tell me something different. I read one explanation and think I’ve finally got a handle on it. Then I find another, and suddenly the thing I thought I’d cleared up is a question again.
I’ve been looking at candles marketed for BDSM use, described as burning at a low temperature. They cost €30. I’m willing to spend the money, but I’d like to understand what I’m buying before I do.
The label sounds reassuring. After all the conflicting information, though, I’m still looking for a clear explanation rather than another description that leaves me with more questions.
I’m curious about trying something new, and I want to be able to enjoy that curiosity. At the moment, it’s mostly sending me back to read another page.
So I’m asking before I buy: for someone interested in trying wax play, what should I understand about these candles? The €30 can stay where it is until I have a clearer answer.
