How do you feel about your partner’s body hair on the days they haven’t shaved? I mean the ordinary in-between days, when there’s a little growth and no particular reason for either person to make an announcement.
I’m curious about the immediate response. Do you notice and move on? Prefer it? Find that you miss the smoothness? There’s a small difference between having a grooming preference in general and discovering how much it matters when you’re close to someone.
Even the word “unshaved” can make it sound as though something is overdue. Sometimes it’s simply what a body looks like that day. Picture a partner in a short-sleeved shirt, with hair visible on their forearms. There doesn’t have to be a decision or a statement behind it.
I’m not assuming everybody feels the same way about every kind of body hair. Texture, appearance, and personal taste can all be part of the answer. I’d just like to hear the honest, everyday version, without turning it into a demand that someone maintain a particular look.
When your partner skips shaving, does it change the attraction for you—or do you mostly notice because the question came up?
