Marriage was never on my checklist. Honestly, it felt like an archaic ritual that didn’t quite fit with my idea of a modern, independent life. But life, as it tends to do, threw a curveball that made me re-evaluate my stance. This is my story of how I discovered why…
Wisdom
Trust Your Gut: The Accidental Yes That Changed Everything
Trust Your Gut: When Saying Yes Feels Like a Coin Toss They say trust your gut, but nobody tells you what to do when all it does is gurgle at you in indecision. This is the story of how I ended up saying yes to moving in with my boyfriend…
Wisdom
Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? Here Are the Rules That Worked For Us
So, the heart has been broken but let’s talk about picking up those pieces and turning them into a friendship masterpiece. If you’re thinking, “can I really stay friends with my ex?” — let’s dive into the rules that might just make it possible. Buckle up, buttercup! 1. Set Clear…
Vibes
Dating a Much Younger Man — And Actually Loving It
Discovering Unexpected Chemistry It started on what felt like an ordinary Tuesday. I was sipping my coffee at the local café when he walked in—energetic, with a smile that could light up any room. I didn’t notice him at first, engrossed as I was in my own thoughts, but when…
Playful Escapades
Faking Confidence on a Date (And Accidentally Becoming That Girl)
Ah, dating. That delightful dance of pretending to be cooler, smarter, and maybe even slightly more gastrointestinally stable than one truly is. Welcome to the story of how I mastered faking confidence on a date and accidentally became That Girl. Faking Confidence on a Date: The Food Dance The date…
Playful Escapades
Men, Stop Using Burning Man as Your Entire Personality on Dates
When Burning Man Becomes a Personality Trait There’s nothing quite like sitting across from a date and realizing they have an entire PhD in Burning Man studies—without ever having attended college. He mentions Burning Man like he’s part of an underground cult, only more sand and less Kool-Aid. You try…
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Dating Younger Men: Lessons From My Gen Z Situationship
Have you ever found yourself, out of nowhere, dating someone years younger? Suddenly, you’re thrust into a whirlwind of memes you don’t get and new music that resonates with a different vibration. Welcome to dating younger men—where every day is like stepping onto a lively carousel of surprises, humor, and…
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Dating in Your 40s: Lessons Learned and Surprises Found
Ah, dating in your 40s—it’s a whole new kind of wild ride. Trust me, I’ve been there, in the trenches of swiping left and right, maneuvering through unexpected ghosting, and yes, even those nerve-wracking first dates. It’s like life’s way of teaching us more about ourselves than we ever thought…
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The Secret to Healthy Dating Strategies: Be Seen by the Right People
Finding genuine connections in the world of dating can feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack. We’ve all heard the advice: talk to as many people as possible. But is this really effective? Let’s dive into a more sustainable and fulfilling approach—one that revolves around healthy dating…
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How to Hug on a Date: A Playful and Thoughtful Guide
How to Hug on a Date: The Right Way Alright, lovebirds, let’s dive into the sweet embrace of hugging on a date. Whether you’re aiming for a first-date hug or a warm goodbye cuddle, these steps will set you up for success. Step 1: Assess the Situation Before going in…