Would I date a chubby or fat guy? It sounds like a question I should be able to answer immediately. Yes or no, preference declared, everyone free to continue their afternoon.
But the word “ever” makes me hesitate. It asks me to make a decision about every bigger man I might meet, without knowing anything else about any of them. I don’t know his face, his voice, or whether talking to him would feel easy. There’s just a body type where a person would eventually be.
I don’t want to pretend appearance has nothing to do with dating. Wanting to find someone attractive is part of the whole arrangement. But I also can’t tell how I’d feel about a particular man from a broad description of his size.
Maybe I’d be interested. Maybe I wouldn’t. I wouldn’t want someone dating me to prove how open-minded they were, and I wouldn’t want to offer that kind of interest to anyone else.
So the question stays hypothetical for me. If I met a chubby guy I liked, would his size stop me from wanting another conversation, or a date? Until there’s an actual person in the question, I don’t know how firm an answer I can give.
