She was his first sexual partner. He loves her, but his curiosity about other women is growing—and she has said no to an open relationship.
Relationships & Desire
Crushes, mixed signals, dating, and life as a couple. Stories about who we want, what happens when we get together, and how desire changes over time.
I Can Talk to Anyone Until I Find Her Attractive
I talk to strangers for work without a problem. Around a woman I find attractive, even starting a conversation suddenly feels complicated.
My Wife Was Finding Men for Her Friend. Why Was One So Close to Her?
I stepped outside my comfort zone for our Halloween costume. Then my wife’s mission to help a single friend left me feeling abandoned.
We Used to Talk for Hours. Now Every Hangout Ends in Sex
We could talk for hours before we started sleeping together. Now sex fills every hangout, and I’m wondering where the rest of our connection went.
He Has Feelings for Me—But Can’t Say If He Wants a Relationship
I told him I liked him, and he admitted feeling more than friendship. But he needs time, and he cannot say how long.
My Guy Friend Initiated Intimacy. Now Even Coffee Feels Rushed
He initiated our first intimate moments. Since then, our easy friendship has become angry texts, a rushed coffee, and denials I don’t know how to read.
His Mom Has to Approve Our Rug—and I’m Losing Attraction
Six months into living together, his daily calls for his mother’s approval are changing how I feel about him.
We Moved Past Our Awkward Start. Our Friends Won’t Let It Go
Ten months into a happy relationship, our friends keep revisiting the night I denied liking her. Now I’m considering a message to the group chat.
He Says His Marriage Is Open. I’m Starting to Want a Life With Him
He’s affectionate, available and planning a trip with me. He’s also married—and I’m starting to imagine a future we haven’t discussed.
My Dating Confidence Lasts Until I Mention My Hobbies
I was told passion was attractive. At 29, I’m wondering whether that advice still applies when my passion is gaming.
My Housemate Keeps Flirting—While Another Guy Keeps Coming Over
She leans on my shoulder, asks about my type, and says she’s single. The man visiting several times a week makes it harder to know what that means.
How Do I Let My Crush Know I Like Him Without Giving Myself Away?
We’re both 18, we barely talk, and the eye contact could mean everything—or absolutely nothing. I want him to notice without making the group awkward.