My girlfriend confessed to a hookup with a coworker. The month of contact before it made the betrayal harder to process.
Confessions & Secrets
Affairs, hidden messages, and the secrets that change a relationship. Personal stories about desire, trust, and what happens when someone finds out.
My Best Friend Says It Wasn’t Cheating. Should I Tell Her Boyfriend?
After seeing messages about her best friend’s encounter with a coworker, a narrator weighs whether the boyfriend should hear what happened.
She Slept With Him on Their First Date—and Broke Our Agreement
We agreed we could date other people, but sex would mean breaking up. Five months later, I learned what had happened on her first date.
She’s Joining My Trip Without Knowing I Found Out She Cheated
I discovered my girlfriend’s affair while traveling with friends. She’s due to join us for a weekend, and she doesn’t know I know.
My Husband Said She Was Like a Sister. Then I Found His Romantic Text.
For years, he said his longtime friend was like a sister. Then I found the message about the romantic chance he didn’t want to miss.
My Fiancée Cooked Dinner for a Tinder Date in Our Home
A photograph of dinner for two led me to discover the Tinder date my fiancée had brought into our shared home while I was away.
Her Old Phone Made Me Question When She Stopped Sleeping With Him
An old phone brings back doubts about a girlfriend’s former sexual partner—and leaves one crucial question about exclusivity unanswered.
My Husband Told Other Women He Loved Them. He Still Hasn’t Cut Contact.
I respected my husband’s privacy for four years. Then I found his romantic messages to several women—and asked him to delete the contacts.
I Blew Another Woman a Kiss. Does My Partner Need to Know?
A flirtatious goodbye lasted a second. Weeks later, I’m still wondering whether telling my partner would be honesty or a way to ease my guilt.
Sleeping With Someone New Could End My Chance With My Ex
I’m single and seeing someone casually. But my ex says another man would end any chance of us getting back together.
The Man I Like Calls Cheating His Insurance Policy
Our video calls were full of laughter. Then he explained why he had cheated in two relationships before me.
My One-Night Stand Was Celebrating His Own Bachelor Party
My first one-night stand sent me his Instagram. Ten minutes later, I found his fiancée—and learned whose bachelor party he’d been celebrating.