My partner has confronted his friend about cheating, but won’t tell the girlfriend who lives abroad. I’ve made an account to find her—and stopped short.
Confessions & Secrets
Affairs, hidden messages, and the secrets that change a relationship. Personal stories about desire, trust, and what happens when someone finds out.
My Lab Partner Gave Me Oral Sex. Do I Tell the Girl I’m Talking To?
A familiar study invitation turned sexual. Now I’m unsure whether the girl I’m already talking to needs to know.
He Called Her His Ex. He Was Still Telling Her He Loved Her.
For ten weeks, we acted like a couple. Then I found out how much was still going on with the woman he called his ex.
Could I Trust a Woman Who Loved Being the Other Woman?
She was single, but the man she pursued wasn’t. Could I keep dating someone who said the secrecy made the affair exciting?
He’s Engaged—and Gets Jealous When I Talk to Other Men
After three weeks of flirting with an engaged man, I’m pulling away. But I haven’t decided whether to tell his fiancée.
He Said She Was His Wife—Until I Got Back to My Hotel Room
I thought a married couple had invited me to their hotel room. A message afterward revealed a different arrangement—and another husband.
Asking Other Women for Nudes While Calling Myself Committed
He loves his girlfriend, but looking at porn has turned into saving familiar women’s pictures and asking others for nudes.
My Boyfriend Admitted His ‘Friend’ Could Have Been Next
An archived chat led me back to our brief breakup—and to what my boyfriend had considered with a woman he called just a friend.
His Lies About His Ex Leave Me Fantasizing About Other Men
After moving 2,000 miles for my boyfriend, I moved out over his hidden contact with his ex. We’re still trying, but my fantasies have changed.
Another Woman Answered My Husband’s Phone Twice
A late night out became harder to explain when the same woman answered his phone twice—and he still offered no explanation.
I Took My Boyfriend Back, but I’m Planning to Meet Another Man
After nearly leaving over months of lies, I believed my boyfriend again. Now I’m planning to meet a man I’ve already exchanged sexual texts with.
My Boyfriend Knows My Close Friend—Just Not That He’s My Ex
I told my boyfriend my close friend was like family. Nearly three months into our relationship, I still haven’t told him we once dated online.