Her boyfriend makes her feel accepted in a way she hasn’t before. But kissing and sex have become difficult to explain without directing every move.
Bedroom Talk
Sex, desire, and the things partners don’t always know how to say. Candid stories about making a move, trying something new, and wanting different things in bed.
I Love Submitting to Her—Until I Think About Her Ex
He enjoyed a month with his partner in charge. But hearing about her former dominant partner left him struggling to surrender control.
I Want to Initiate Sex, but He Always Makes the First Move
We have an active sex life, but my boyfriend always starts. I want to make the first move without feeling like I’m putting on a performance.
Why Her Sex Toy Feels Different When He Misses Sex With Her
A wife’s solo pleasure can feel different when her husband already misses sex together. But the toy can’t explain everything he’s missing.
Asking for Better Sex Keeps Becoming About His Hurt Feelings
Ten months into our relationship, I still want him. But every attempt to talk about my pleasure leaves me managing his hurt feelings.
He Said He Could Keep Up—Then I Wanted Sex
After three years celibate, I found a man I wanted. He said he could match my desire. Now I’m hearing that I’m too much again.
My Girlfriend’s Bathroom Jokes Have Me Wondering About a Fetish
Since we moved in together, her jokes have become more specific. I want to understand what she means without making an assumption about her desires.
I Want to Try His Fantasies. His Porn Still Hurts.
His saved videos gave me ideas I liked—and feelings I hadn’t expected, in a sexual dynamic I’m still learning to navigate.
Would He Enjoy Playing Batman in Bed—or Just Pleasing Me?
Halloween costumes made me wonder: would a man enjoy playing a fictional character in bed for himself, or mainly for his partner?
I Still Want Sex—Just Not With My Partner
After three years together, my sex drive is still there. But solo pleasure has become my preference, and I know that may not be enough for her.
I Want Him to Take Charge in Bed. I Don’t Know How to Start.
We have chemistry over messages and dinner planned. I am excited to explore a submissive dynamic, but I cannot picture the first few minutes.
My Friends Are Having an Affair. I Miss Feeling Wanted.
After years of initiating sex in my marriage, news of an affair brought up a feeling I didn’t expect: jealousy of being desired.